I don’t have the brakes in my feet and steering wheel in my hands anymore!

AWESOME POWER OF LOVE

Parenting is TOUGH and BITTERSWEET in all it’s stages. But what is the toughest part of being a parent? Many would argue child birth and seeing their kids going through pain..something on which they have no control on. And that’s what I thought till I took my kids … okay not kids- my young adults for their driving lessons.

Metaphorically kids being in the driving seats is what every parent is waiting for. But literally, kids in the driving seat and you in the navigator seat means the kid is in control of his and your precious life. And that in my opinion is the scariest and toughest part of parenting.

Before every driving lesson I have to prepare , prepare hard and push myself out of my comfort zone, wear my brave armour …tell myself ….if I can teach them to talk and walk, how much difficult can this be?…

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” Boys Will Be Boys ” “Girls Poor Girls”

AWESOME POWER OF LOVE

“Boys will be Boys “and “Girls poor Girls ” are the longest withstanding cliche’s that we know of in our world…Stereotypes that we resented when we were growing up and stereotypes that our kids resent when they have grown up enough to make sense of the above two phrases.”Boys will Be Boys ” cliche has for centuries absolved men from many wrong doings and it’s time to stop that and make them accountable too. ” Girls are Girls …poor girls “cliche has stopped the women from going after their dreams for far too long, and given them also a reason to not work hard enough … Again for far too too long!

Times are changing , so is the world around us , there are a few strong and sensitive leaders , both men and women who are emerging and breaking the cliches , giving us and our children a…

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Wish rape culture dies a sudden death ….and never raises its head ever again!

I couldn't sleep yesterday after reading  a  heart rendering article by Mitali Saran "Statutory warning: Countries with such low levels of humanity could die". She talked about humanity dying and our country being very very sick. Feelings of regret overtook me as I had purposefully avoided reading the detailed news on Kathua and Unnao rape cases …